Julie Osgood lost her partner of 38 years to Covid. When she tried dating again, she matched with four men on dating apps — all of them turned out to be scammers. Now she's warning others about the experience, but her story lands in a crypto market gripped by extreme fear, where the same emotional desperation that drives romance scams also pushes investors to sell at the worst possible moment.
How dating app scams mirror crypto cons
Osgood’s experience fits a pattern known as “pig butchering” — a long-con where scammers build trust over weeks, then steer victims to fake investment platforms, often crypto-based. The FBI estimates these scams cost victims over $3 billion annually in crypto losses. Osgood’s case isn’t directly tied to crypto, but the tactic is identical: exploit grief, loneliness, and hope. Older women who’ve lost spouses are prime targets because they hold liquid savings — life insurance payouts, retirement funds — and are less familiar with red flags like “guaranteed returns” or unregulated exchanges.
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Fear & Greed hits extreme — a historical bottom?
The Crypto Fear & Greed Index sits at 12 right now — Extreme Fear. That’s the kind of number that historically has preceded relief rallies. Bitcoin’s 24-hour change is -0.46%, and the 7-day drop is -17.86%, but the extreme sentiment reading suggests panic, not fundamentals, are driving the move. The market is behaving like a dating app user who swipes right on every scam because the need for connection overrides caution.
The real scam: selling now at $60k
The parallel between Osgood’s story and today’s market isn’t forced — it’s structural. In both cases, emotional vulnerability creates an opening for bad actors. For dating app users, the scammer is a fake profile. For crypto investors, the scam is the urge to dump when fear is at its peak. The contrarian take? The biggest trap right now isn’t a phishing link or a fraudulent project — it’s selling Bitcoin at $60k because the news cycle screams “extreme fear.” Like Osgood, investors should question what seems too convenient. In her case, four matches all being scammers was unlikely. In crypto, selling when Fear & Greed is 12 has historically been the wrong move.
What’s next for sentiment
Isolated human-interest stories like this one don’t move markets, but they feed a feedback loop that keeps retail investors on the sidelines. Each new scam story reinforces the “crypto is unsafe” narrative, depressing sentiment further and extending the period of extreme fear. The unresolved question: will a relief rally come when scam coverage peaks? If history is any guide, that’s exactly when the bottom forms. For now, Osgood’s warning is a reminder that trust — whether in a dating app or a crypto exchange — requires the same skeptical eye.
